Edwige Pierre Trunk Show

Alright y’all… this is an old post that I’m just realizing never went live. *annoyed face* But I really like this collection so I’m still going to share. My sister Nadia and I had the pleasure of attending an Edwige Pierre trunk show in Houston earlier this year. The designer, Joshua Pierre, is a Houston native (you know all the cool people are from Houston ;)) and his collection is super dope. Edwige Pierre is a contemporary take on a classic menswear style. What I like most about it is that each piece has a casual, laid back yet distinguished look to it. The line mostly consists of tunics, blazers and beaded accessories. FYI, the pics here are from this past F/W collection. He has some new, swaggy pieces now so make sure you check it out on the Edwige Pierre website.

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If you’re a female and need gift ideas for a brother, friend, boyfriend, husband, fiancé, this is for you. Or if you’re like me and just want to wear a piece yourself, I totally think we ladies can rock one of these tunics. And if you’re a guy and you just want to be dope, you should definitely check it out more. Hope you find something you like 🙂

I’m thinking I should do a feature on Josh and Edwige Pierre on The Chai Series, yeah??

❤ Carin

Gatsby Girls

Or should I say Cotton Club? We went to a Gatsby themed party and had a lot of fun! Nadia loves dressing up (and she’s good at it!) The Gatsby era was all about opulence and elegance so we did just that, lots of sparkle, pearls, fur. We got to take some awesome photos with the talented Mo (@rukophoto on IG). He made us look good 🙂

Blendian Swag

Hey y’all… I’m going to start mixing it up a bit and doing some fashion posts. A couple of my sisters will be joining me too. Be on the lookout! 🙂

It’s only right that my first fashion post is for Mother India. I love mixing traditional Indian wear for Indian/American inspired looks. My sis and I went to see Phantom of the Opera. We both wore traditional Indian clothes as separates and put a “western” twist on our outfits.

 

Nadia (left) is wearing gold churidar and I’m (right) wearing the top of a salwar kameez as a dress. Nadia mixed her fit with an oversized black sweater, a hand embroidered scarf and choker from one of my favorite jewelry designers, Suhani Pittie, from my dad’s hometown, Hyderabad.

1/2 the Pinto Sibs

Fun night.

❤ Carin

God, Remember Me? 

God doesn’t forget you. How many of y’all have been there, feeling distant, lost, hopeless? Where are/were you in my struggle, pain, hurt, heartbreak, God, remember me? I believe we often times pray this out of desperation because, the truth is, God has never forgotten you and never will. God is always present even when we don’t ask (or want Him to be lol). It’s never God forgetting us. It’s us not seeing where He is working in our lives or even allowing Him to be present and work in our lives. It’s a matter of us never letting go of Him.

This morning I asked myself what would it take for me to go to sleep every night knowing that I lived my day to the fullest, knowing that I walked every step as God wanted me to, went as He lead, spoke to those He wanted me to speak to, kept my attitude in check, went right and not left even when I didn’t want to. Honestly, I’m not really sure, but I know I can start by scripture and keeping my mind/thoughts on God. Every morning I’ll give my day to God, ask Him to take it over. This is the only way I see me walking in His will daily. If I do that, then I’m sure I’ll accomplish all that He desires of me. I won’t have to worry about a to do list, burdening myself with things I shouldn’t be focused on. There’s a reason there are only 24 hours in a day. (I’m not saying don’t have a to do list, I just mean be flexible as God leads.)

Psalm 139 and Jeremiah 1:5 both talk about how God knew us before we were even formed in the womb. If God took time to know us then, don’t you think he still knows us?  “Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.” (Luke 12:7) This scripture is an example of how God cares about the littlest to the biggest things in life. If we do our part and walk in faith, I believe we’ll see how and where God is working in our lives and we’ll find ourselves saying, “God, remember me?” far less. The finished work is God’s job and God always does His part.

Instead of God, remember me? Let our prayer be God, help me not to forget you. He’ll use us in magnificent ways.

Love y’all!

Carin

God’s Promise To His Chosen Servant

God is with you. Isaiah 49 is a chapter full of depth about God’s promises to His chosen servant. We are living in crazy times, so crazy that sometimes I wonder if these are the end times… just me? In the midst of all the craziness, all we can do is stand on God’s promises to us. It can be easy to lose hope or just feel like what you’re working towards is pointless, but when we realize what God has promised us, we’ll be able to stay focused and walk in an unspeakable joy that no one and no circumstance can take from us.

In a time of favor, I have answered you in a day of salvation I have helped you. Those who wait for me shall not be put to shame. For I will contend with him who contends with you, And I will save your children. I will feed those who oppress you with their own flesh. These are just a few of the promises from Isaiah 41 and 49 that stood out to me. Here are some of the scriptures in full, keep them as reminders for yourselves!

I took you from the ends of the earth, from its farthest corners I called you. I said, ‘You are my servant’; I have chosen you and have not rejected you. So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:11

Though you search for your enemies, you will not find them. Those who wage war against you will be as nothing at all. Isaiah 41:12

For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you. Do not be afraid, you worm Jacob, little Israel, do not fear, for I myself will help you,” declares the Lord, your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel. Isaiah 41:13-14

This is what the Lord says: “In the time of my favor I will answer you, and in the day of salvation I will help you; I will keep you and will make you to be a covenant for the people, to restore the land and to reassign its desolate inheritances, 9 to say to the captives, ‘Come out,’ and to those in darkness, ‘Be free!’” Isaiah 49:8-9

Kings shall be your foster fathers, And their queens your nursing mothers; They shall bow down to you with their faces to the earth, And lick up the dust of your feet. Then you will know that I am the Lord, For they shall not be ashamed who wait for Me.” Isaiah 49:23

But thus says the Lord“Even the captives of the mighty shall be taken away, And the prey of the terrible be delivered; For I will contend with him who contends with you, And I will save your children.” Isaiah 49:25

Do not fear, do not be afraid, I will keep you, I will help you. How awesome are these promises? Psalm 34:19 says, “Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.” For God to be known, he uses His people and works through them. The Bible never says that we won’t go through anything. It says that our afflictions will give us a reason to praise and glorify God because of the victory we receive.

Happy Monday. Keep going. Stand on God’s promises this week. His word will give you strength.

With love,

Carin

Who’s Building Your House?

Is God building your house or are you building your own house? Psalm 127:1-2 says,

“Unless the Lord builds the house, They labor in vain who build it; Unless the Lord guards the city, The watchman stays awake in vain. It is vain for you to rise up early, To sit up late, To eat the bread of sorrows; For so He gives His beloved sleep.”

Think about building a house. It starts with laying a foundation, a strong foundation to hold up and hold together the structure above it. When this scripture says “unless the Lord builds the house”, it is talking about God leading and guiding us in our life’s journey in everything. Often times, we build our own foundation, make our own plans, choose our own way then want God to take over and finish the building process for us. The challenge here is that we don’t know how to properly build a house with a strong foundation that will be able to withstand everything that comes to tear it apart or break it down. Once we realize this, we end up giving God a fragile house with a lot of potential, one with cracks and problems that need to be fixed to make into the greatness it’s supposed to be. And that’s ok because desires to give us His grace,  but the same way some houses need to be torn down to be repaired from the ground up is the same way we are.

God will do it. “It is vain for you to rise up early, To sit up late, To eat the bread of sorrows; For so He gives His beloved sleep.” God wants us to put in the work, but He wants us to work smartly and to let him do the tough work. Can we have faith enough to let him be in control so we can rest and be at peace? If we build a strong foundation, and have a healthy spiritual life and relationship with God first and foremost, everything else will fall into place. We should be seeking God about our careers, promotion, investment decisions, health, girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband, finances… everything, so our work won’t be “in vain” as Psalm 127:2 says. God has all the (right) answers, so why waste our time!? Can we trust God enough to let Him build us up and establish us instead of being led by our own desires and emotions?

We can be confident that if God is leading us and building our houses, He is leading us in victory and while He is leading, He is using us. “But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumph in Christ, and manifests through us, the sweet aroma of the knowledge of Him in every place (2 Corinthians 2:14 KJV). Walk in your victory!

I know it’s tough, y’all. In the midst of life, daily struggles, the ups and downs, to see God in everything. Just remember that He is always working on our behalf, moving things around for us. We have to believe that God is always faithful and working in our favor, not only when we see Him come through how we want Him to and when we want Him to, but always. I’ll finish with this awesome parable of the farmer sowing seed in Matthew 13:3-8, “Listen! A farmer went out to plant some seeds. As he scattered them across his field, some seeds fell on a footpath, and the birds came and ate them. Other seeds fell on shallow soil with underlying rock. The seeds sprouted quickly because the soil was shallow. But the plants soon wilted under the hot sun, and since they didn’t have deep roots, they died. Other seeds fell among thorns that grew up and choked out the tender plants. Still other seeds fell on fertile soil, and they produced a crop that was thirty, sixty, and even a hundred times as much as had been planted!” Let’s plant our seeds on fertile ground with roots that can’t be torn up. When we let God build our house, He’ll give us a joy that gives us a reason to smile even in the toughest, worst times of life.

With love,

Carin

Your Heart Lies

“Go with your gut.” We hear this often, and I can’t say I disagree with it. If I feel like something is right, I do it. If I have peace about something, I do it. Should we stop trusting our hearts though?

The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked; Who can know it? (Jeremiah 17:9). This verse says it all, we actually don’t know our hearts. Think about how much we trust ourselves to make the right decisions, to say the right thing, to do the right thing. We sincerely try to do what’s right, but sometimes it’s just not in us. How often do we fail? We think we’re trusting God, but we’re really trusting ourselves. In Romans 7:15-16, Paul says that he doesn’t understand what he he does, for what he wills to do, he doesn’t practice, but what he hates, he does.

How do we trust ourselves if, by nature, our hearts are wicked? These next verses explain it perfectly. Just like there is bad, there is good, just like we have deceitful hearts, we can have pure hearts… God wants to give you a clean heart.

He that trusteth in his own heart is a fool: but whoso walketh wisely, he shall be delivered (Proverbs 28:26).

I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26).

It’s about transformation, walking wisely with a renewed heart of flesh. Walking wisely means understanding what the will of the Lord is, giving thanks for all things, submitting to one another in the fear of God (see Ephesians 5:15-21). I hope we can all get to a point where we know we are trusting God in us, not ourselves. Only then can we make right decisions, from the little to the big things, how to spend the day, career, relationships, etc.

God wants to lead you in the right way, is your heart open to Him?

❤ Carin

Harlem, NY: Food Culture with Chef Lance

Hey y’all, I’m so happy to share this piece on blujeen! It’s been one of my go to spots and Harlem favorites since it opened earlier this year. I had the chance to speak with the owner, Chef Lance Knowling, about the restaurant concept and how it came to be! Check it out below

chef lanceMeet Chef Lance. He has owned four restaurants, blujeen is his fifth. He is originally from Kansas City, went to culinary school, worked in many differently places as an apprentice, moved to Dallas (the great state of Texas!) in 1983, then moved to NY in 1988 and has been here since.

“I can open a restaurant anywhere in NY, but for me, I wanted it to be here. This, to me, is storybook.”

Tell us about blujeen! How did it start? Why Harlem? Where did the name come from? (I know, I know… I started off by asking five questions in one. I got called out too lol)

Chef Lance: It’s usually one question at a time. Haha. Well, blujeen is first and foremost a concept. It’s my interpretation of comfort food. With my background, training and experience and the kind of food that I like, but combining that with traditional techniques as well as classical techniques. I’m classically French trained. I wanted to introduce a different type of comfort food. A lot of the inspiration comes from my upbringing, my mother, in-laws and family, gatherings. I wanted to recreate that in blujeen. That’s really where the inspiration came from, I thought it would be a good vehicle for my type of cuisine, my type of food.

Why Harlem?

Chef Lance: I love Harlem. I’ve worked in Manhattan for years. It was one of those childhood dreams to own a restaurant in Harlem. I mean, I can open a restaurant anywhere in NY, but for me, I wanted it to be here. This, to me, is storybook.

Prior to blujeen, what were you doing?

Chef Lance: I’ve owned a series of restaurants named Indigo Smoke. All of my restaurants are blue something. I opened the first one in 2002, Indigo Kitchen & Bar, and I’ve always catered. That’s pretty much what I was doing until I opened up here. Our focus at blujeen is just the restaurant and catering. I don’t have the other restaurants anymore, I sold them. This is my focus.

[Fun fact! He catered Chelsea Clinton’s wedding.]

That’s is a huge accomplishment!

Chef Lance: Yeah, I guess so. I try not to get too caught up in that. It’s such hard work that it’s really just keep working. Don’t think about anything else, just keep working.

What keeps you motivated?

Chef Lance: If I’m going to be completely honest with that, my motivation is always food related. I’ll make something and I’ll love it and people will love it, then I want to do something else. I’m always pushing towards the next thing. I don’t know if that’s my character or what, but I’ve always been like that. I’ve been in the business since I was 17. It’s really the only thing I’ve ever done. It’s part of my makeup. That’s my motivation, to do something else, to do more.

You kind of touched on it, looking at this as a big accomplishment but not focusing on that and keeping it moving. For my peers especially, we look at where we are and it’s great, like we made it here but we keep pushing for what’s next. There’s a kind of a battle between complacency and contentment. How do you find the balance of pushing forward with new goals, but still being content?

Chef Lance: First and foremost, I’m never satisfied. I don’t know if that’s good or bad. But I think that helps to keep from becoming complacent. Sometimes you sit back and you go, “that is pretty cool” or you read something nice about yourself or you hear a compliment that kind of keeps you going. But, because I’m never satisfied, I keep doing it. I don’t think I’ll ever become complacent. The most I would ever be, I would just quit completely. I’d find a beach somewhere, some lemonade or iced tea. I don’t know if that day will ever come. I work seven days a week and I don’t see myself doing anything else.

“Success is the end and I’m no where near the end.”

What have been some of the challenges in getting to where you are in your career and overcoming them?

Chef Lance: I think a lot of those challenges are still there. They never really go away, you just manage them differently. As you get older, hopefully you get a little smarter, a little more patient, which is not always a good thing, but you do become that way. A lot of the challenges and hurdles that I’ve faced in the business still remain today which is why we have the Black Chef Series. Personally speaking, I don’t think there has been a time in my life where I’ve said to myself, “I’m successful.” That’s never happened.

We all define success differently.

Chef Lance: I guess by some other person’s standard, I would probably be successful. I think I have so much more to do, I just cant look at myself and say you’ve done enough or this is the best you can do or you can’t do more. I’ve never had a day like that. That doesn’t mean there aren’t times when people like your restaurant or great things happen in your life where you say I’m really proud of myself. Success is the end and I’m no where near the end.

Interesting way to put it. I don’t think I’ve heard it that way before. You were talking about the Black Chef Series, it’s an awesome concept. What inspired it and how did it come about?

Chef Lance: I have lots of concepts and ideas for things. I talked to a few of my chef friends about it before I opened up. I was sitting with Chef Max and Alize, Max Hardy is a big part of the Food Bank of NY and other charitable organizations like that. We were talking about how we can combine charitable concepts with chef concepts. I introduced them to the Black Chef Series and they ran with it. They’ve done a lot with it. We have a nice nucleus forming to go forward with. Everyone is talking about the next one. Is there a winter series or a holiday series? We might take it on the road, we’ve received phone calls… a lot of great ideas around the Black Chef Series. We have to see what direction we want to go.

“I always wanted my restaurant to be that kind of place, where other chefs can come in.”

When I was coming up as a chef, there wasn’t anything like that, certainly not for black chefs. It’s always been difficult for black chefs to get noticed. I’m not just talking about black people who can cook, but chefs, people that have gone to school, have formal training, have worked at some of the best places in the country, have put in the time and they don’t get any recognition. When it’s time for them to make that next step, a lot of restaurants are unwilling to give them the head chef, executive chef title because they don’t want their patrons to see a black face manning the stove. It’s as simple as that. You don’t have to sugarcoat it. More and more black chefs are getting opportunities, but its very slight. I talk to the younger generation and they’re finding the same roadblocks. It’s difficult.

Switching gears a little, let’s talk the food you make. What’s your favorite dish to make? In general, it could be at home with family, for holidays or at this restaurant?

Chef Lance: Well you see that’s two different things. There’s professional cooking, there’s business and friends and family… that’s a completely different attitude.

Can you talk about the difference a little?

Chef Lance: A restaurant is a stage, it’s a performance to a certain degree. You’re doing things to appeal to multiple people. You want to make food that is personal. You’re creating, that’s why you have a menu. You have people who are gluten free, who are vegetarian, people who don’t eat pork. A professional has to create dishes for all of those people and they all have to taste good. That’s where the profession comes in, multiple people can come in and enjoy your work. At home, you don’t really care about that. When you cook at home, its what you want to eat. At home I might make that shrimp and grits, three, four, five different ways because I’m going to eat it regardless. Ultimately, we always revert back to what mom and dad fed us growing up. That’s a part of flavor memory. That never goes away no matter what. What you’re fed as a child never goes away.

I don’t know what your heritage is but…

I’m half Indian, half black, my dad is from India and my mom is from St. Louis.

Chef Lance: I’m from Kansas City. That’s BBQ country. The earliest food memories I have are all around BBQ, grilling, fire. I still like that and there’s a lot of those elements in my cooking: charring, fire roasting, grilling, because I like that edge. You could never go wrong with me if you give me some good BBQ. Ever.

Texas BBQ.

Chef Lance: I’m not going to fight with you on your blog. I’m just going to say ok, but I can’t concur. ( He knows the truth! :))

Speaking of your menu and how home has influenced it, Helen’s Pull Apart Bread, that’s my favorite!

Chef Lance: Everybody loves it. It’s bread and butter baked together. That is my mother’s bread, we grew up eating it. My mom gave me that recipe and taught me how to make it. On our new brunch menu, the Pull Apart French Toast is stupid. It’s the only pull apart French toast in the country, sauteed apples with a little caramel sauce. It’s already a best seller. All the flavor is still there, the butter, the yeast bread, done like french toast.

(My mouth was watering) Do you have a most popular dish? From friends if you’re cooking at home and at the restaurant?

Chef Lance: Well my friends and family like anything I make.

Haha, I can understand that.

Chef Lance: We just changed our menu. I would say on the new menu, our most popular appetizer is the shrimp and grits. And our most popular dinner entrée item right now is the grilled boneless short ribs with a smoked gruyere scalloped potato which is really really good. That’s been moving like hotcakes. Actually, it might be the blackened salmon first, then the short ribs.

I had the salmon at my birthday dinner, SO GOOD… the salmon basically melted in my mouth!

Chef Lance: Yeah, people love the salmon. We’re always going to change, keep it fresh. We always try to stay as true to inspired comfort food as possible. I don’t want it to be just totally traditional.

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Create with purpose. That means creating for eternity, being timeless and creating beyond the superficial, money and fame. How are you creating with purpose?

Chef Lance: I was just having this conversation with someone yesterday. Last night, our last two customers asked, “how’s it going?” I said it’s going pretty good. We can always do better. Every day we come up with stuff to better define ourselves as a restaurant, to better define our food and to get better. People will ask, “Did you come to NY to make more money?” I say no, I made plenty of money in NJ. I don’t do anything for money. I didn’t open tthe restaurant with a financial plan like this is going to make me rich. Of course bills have to be paid, people have to be paid, that’s just part of the course.

“My mother is an artist and she’s instilled that in us, do things you love. Do things you like and stay committed to that. Whatever you need will come”

Earlier you said your restaurants all have some form of blue. Where did that come from?

Chef Lance: I like blue so I’m always playing with it in some kind of way. There’s always a double entendre and a double meaning for everything.

These ladies inspired me for a couple of reasons and that’s why the photographs are all from the 50s. I always knew what was happening in the world. My parents made sure we understood, but I wasn’t jaded. How do people going through what my parents went through, get together and have dinner parties and fondue and still deal with all the things in the world? That was inspirational. That’s why blujeen doesn’t mean the color blue. The blu is blue, “I’m feeling a little blue.” And Jeen is typical “Jean” from the 50s.

Do you have any advice for this generation? Times have changed but not quite at the same time. That feeling of bluenees still exists to some extent.

Chef Lance: I’d argue that it’s exacerbated even. We didn’t have social media. Now kids are bombarded with it. In many respects, you may have to be a little stronger than we were. I think young people today have to have a different type of filter where they can see these things and not go out and start killing people because that won’t fix anything. If you go down that path, you have a lot of people to kill. Violence is not the answer. The best way to fix the situation is education. It’s hard when there aren’t enough resources, family situations aren’t conducive, but that’s where the answer lies. I would like to see everything that’s happening motivate people to do more for themselves by any means necessary. Go to school, get a mentor, be a mentor, whatever it takes to change the situation. Young people today have to be strong and committed.

That’s great. Wrapping up now, what’s next for blujeen? What should we be looking out for?

Chef Lance: Fall items on the menu this month and we’ll be launching a new Black Chef Series soon, either Fall or Winter. The next series, the chefs will be local. And just look for more blujeen stuff!

Thanks Chef Lance! Go visit him at blujeen and say hi! Check out their Sunday dinner, it’s a perfect night out with friends or family 🙂 Enjoy the food, it’s delish. (Get the salmon and shrimp and grits and the pull apart french toast if you go for brunch… must haves!!)

Inside the Artist Studio | Q&A with Jamel Robinson

I believe that God has given me purpose and put a calling on my life to create so everything I do has His purpose for me painted on it. Literally.  So in order for me to create with purpose, all I have to do is pick up my tools and get to work.”

Jamel Robinson

Jamel Robinson. A little back story so y’all know how cool he is. Our first convo was about his grill (the mouthpiece not a food grill). We were both chillin at the Soho House, started talking about grills, art and a bunch of other stuff. (Everyone always thinks I’m playing, but I really want one. I’ve been saying I am getting one for way too long… coming soon :D)

Back to why you’re reading this, Jamel! He is a seasoned poet turned artist with an awesome perspective on art and life in general. Born and raised in Harlem. He creates in Harlem, but he’s all around the city. Some of your favorite celebrities collect his art. Check out my q&a with him below!

What made you transition from poetry to art?

Jamel: I am a poet turned self-taught painter. After years of writing and performing, a friend asked me to paint a poem on a canvas and be a part of a group exhibition that he was curating. That’s what officially got me into painting back in November of 2011. A month later, after getting word that someone close to me had passed away, I went back to the art supply store I had gone to for supplies, came home and began a journey that I’ve been on every day since, finding and developing the “visual language” that I now use to express myself.

What influences your style?

Jamel: One of my favorite Basquiat quotes is “you’ve got to realize that influence is not influence. It’s simply someone’s idea going through my new mind.”

Being an artist can be really tough since everyone is a critic of your work and you’re pretty much at the mercy of public opinion. How do you stay confident and motivated?

Jamel: I think I’ve gotten as far as I have by being fearless. I try not to think about what anyone else is thinking about my work. Also, in order for me to show something publicly, it has to meet my approval and since I don’t put anyone’s opinion above my own, once I think it’s good, it’s good enough for everyone else. I was the same way when I used to write; you wouldn’t read or hear a poem unless it met my approval. Any thoughts to the contrary that come up, I acknowledge and dismiss.

How does faith play a role in your artistry?

Jamel: Because I’m fortunate enough to make a living off of my artwork, I constantly have to have faith that God will provide for me as long as I show up and do my part, which is simply to create and then show my work to the world however I can. God has always taken care of the rest. But even before that, when it’s just me and the canvas or a piece of paper or wood – or whatever I’m expressing myself on, I have to have faith that God is working through me and that I’ll make something that people can connect to in some way.

What has been the biggest challenge of your career and how did you overcome it?

Jamel: The biggest challenge for me is always not to give up, not to give in and not to let go. Not to give up on this dream I never had yet find myself living, not to give in to the fears that are constantly calling for attention and not to let go of everything I’ve built so far along this journey or what God has planned for me if I just stick with it.

How do you find time to keep God first on a daily basis?

Jamel: I start my day with prayer, reading the Bible, SOAPing, which is a style of writing on the Bible, meditating and making art. These are all exercises in gratitude. If I can be grateful, I can put God first and hopefully keep him first in all of my affairs.

Creating with purpose can also mean standing out, which is not always easy, especially for young people. Do you have any words of wisdom for your fellow young folk on not compromising their beliefs and staying true to God throughout their careers and life?

Jamel: I think that if you put God first, before your wants and the world’s desires, everything else will fall into place. You can’t think about what you’ll lose if you don’t conform to the world, you have to have faith in what you’ll gain from honoring God. When you feel pressure to bend in the opposite direction of your faith, break away into the arms of God and know that you’ll be carried and cared for.

What’s next for you?

Jamel: I’m currently developing a one act play and, as usual, thinking about where and when to have my next solo exhibitions (I have three that are just about ready to show), but there are a few other things you’ll just have to keep up with me on Instagram or get on my mailing list to get wind of.

Y’all heard him 🙂 Check him out on Instagram @jrcreativeink or follow his Tumblr to keep up with his work and how he’s creating with purpose. Looking forward to the one act play Jamel!

❤ Carin

What Are You Allowing To Be god In Your Life?

If God told you to pack up everything and leave today, would you do it? What would be the one thing you wouldn’t want to let go? Family, a significant other, your career, friends, your hobby… all things that are a blessing and make life beautiful. We just have to make sure they stay in their proper place, after God. God’s word to us should reign supreme. It shouldn’t matter who said what or what our plans might be, if God speaks to us, we act on it, regardless of what we feel or think. (I’m still trying to get to this place of pure obedience!) If we aren’t careful, it is easy to start placing more importance and value on the things in life over our relationship with God.

In Luke 18, a wealthy ruler asked Jesus what he must do to inherit eternal life. Jesus reminded him of the commandments to which he replied he has been following since his youth. When Jesus heard this, He said to him, “One thing you still lack. Sell all that you have and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” When the man heard this he became very sad, for he was extremely wealthy (Luke 18:18-23).

Over time, did this wealthy ruler let wealth become his god where he valued it more than Jesus’ word to him? He was earnestly trying to live for God and to honor God, but even still, after a word from God, he had difficulty giving everything earthly up for treasure in heaven. Reality check. We all need them sometimes 🙂 Two of the ten commandments talk about gods and idols. “Thou shalt have no other gods before me. Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth.” (Exodus 20:3-4) Notice that these are two separate commandments, God purposely placed individual importance on gods and “graven images”.  We usually think of gods and idols as statues or images that people bow down and worship. Yes, those are gods, but a god or idol can also be anything you put before God.

“We won’t know the blessings of God’s plan for us until we obey Him completely.”

I heard that from a pastor last Friday. Only when we honor God for who He is will we be able to understand what God wants to do in our lives. God wants to know that He comes first in your life, before anyone or anything, because only then can He act as God in your life. It’s hard for God to be God when we have given other people, thoughts, ambition, goals and everything else the time and attention we should be giving to God, holding them in a place where only God should be. If we ask God to be our helper, keeper, provider, director, comforter, etc., we also have to allow Him be these things in our lives. We will walk in the full promises of God in our lives if we are completely surrendered to Him.

Let it go. In the moment, it may seem like you are giving up A LOT, and it’s hard, you don’t want to let go of whatever you’re holding on to. Stop hanging with your bestie, breakup with your bf/gf, quit the job, move to the new city, don’t do the drugs, drink the alcohol, or go to the party, listen to your mom… trust God. If He is telling you to do something, do it. He’s got your back and there’s nothing but good that will come from your obedience. He has so much more for you if just trust Him. Remember this scripture, Then Jesus said to them,

“I tell you the truth, there is no one who has left home or wife or brothers or parents or children for the sake of God’s kingdom who will not receive many times more in this age—and in the age to come, eternal life.” (Luke 18:19)

If you think about what God has planned for you when you obey Him, you’ll quickly realize how little you are really giving up. 

With love,

Carin